tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post115467517912442394..comments2023-08-15T06:44:05.705-05:00Comments on Pure Church: Up All Night Thinking About EvangelismFellowElderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08590139703839397873noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1155839970387453422006-08-17T13:39:00.000-05:002006-08-17T13:39:00.000-05:00Thabiti: What I have learned to become is intentio...Thabiti: What I have learned to become is intentional, very intentional about what I actually say, which ends up leading to opportunities to talk about Jesus. For example, in response to the common greeting "Hi, how are you?" I just to say "Fine" even when things were not going well, but I learned that honesty isn't always the best avenue when others are only trying to be polite and they don't want to hear about all of the problems in your life, because they can hardly deal with the problems in their own lives. So, I reconsidered and realized that regardless of whether things are going swimmingly or painfully, I am blessed by God for much better than I deserve. Now my response to the greeting "How are you?" is to say "I'm blessed, thank you for asking." Amazingly, this small change has for me opened doors to encourage closet-Christians; to pray with others who express a need; and to not interfere with people who time God has not yet prepared for a deeper spiritual discussion. <BR/><BR/>Then, in the next step the Holy Spirit convicted me of, I learned to git rid of the word "luck" from my vocabulary. It is too easy to say "good luck" in so many circumstances when as a born-again believer I know better that nothing happens by divine accident, everything is pre-ordained by God. So, now, instead I will offer "best wishes" or "God's blessings" or anything except "luck". <BR/><BR/>Now I am working on eliminating the word "pride", "proud" and variations of the same from my vocabulary, which is much tougher than I thought it would be. Our society and even most Christians use these words to decribe the feelings we often have, but from all that I have seen in the Bible, those terms are never spoken of favorably in scripture. When one of my children now does something really wonderful, special, beyond himself/herself, I tell them of my happiness for them, my joy in what God accomplishes through them, and how I would encourage them to greater things beyond themselves, but it is difficult for me to find adequate replacements for those words. <BR/><BR/>I am rambling again, but I try to keep my spiritual eyes open in typical everyday conversations to see opportunities where the Holy Spirit would open doors. You are familiar with the common "initial introduction" question: "What do you do?" which is a blank check to say anything from "I am a [counselor, teacher, pastor, etc.]" to the more esoteric "I use my God-given talents and abilities to glorify God the best that I can." As a matter of fact I have taught middle schoolers in sunday school telling them that if I had several million dollars and I were to donate it to a hospital who used the money to build a new wing and a research center that discovered a cure for cancer, the hospital likely would name the wing in my name, but God wouldn't be getting the glory. Jesus would say "I tell you, he has already received his reward." So each opportunity to bring recognition of God into a conversation is a crack in the door for the Holy Spirit to put His feet inside the conversation and into a life. The opportunites are there, it is a matter for following the Holy Spirit's lead. Your brother in Christ Jesus, SteveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1155312430972641192006-08-11T11:07:00.000-05:002006-08-11T11:07:00.000-05:00I can relate to your statements in the paragraph j...I can relate to your statements in the paragraph just above your initial plan.<BR/><BR/>I would encourage you to continue to challenge yourself after you become the senior pastor. You are right that it will become harder for you to be in contact with the unsaved and unchurched. <BR/><BR/>Another source to consider is BECOMING A CONTAGIOUS CHRISTIAN by Bill Hybels. It is a very good tool for motivating and equipping people in the church to do "friendship evangelism" (what you have described). When I used the teaching kit a few years ago, my biggest critiqe was the lack of diversity in the people used in the video. I don't know if this has changed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1155064572833953712006-08-08T14:16:00.000-05:002006-08-08T14:16:00.000-05:00"Hell's Best Kept Secret" by Ray Comfort."Hell's Best Kept Secret" by Ray Comfort.doughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18402848051284980448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1154970667999587152006-08-07T12:11:00.000-05:002006-08-07T12:11:00.000-05:00I appreciate the post and feel the same way. My w...I appreciate the post and feel the same way. My wife and I are working a plan to do a few of those same things, so that's encouraging to see you write them out. We must not count our lives as of any value except that we finish the course and the ministry the Lord Jesus has given us - to testify solemnly to the Gospel of the grace of God. <BR/><BR/>praying for you, brother,<BR/>BrittOrangettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14718309124998794665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1154836198732275372006-08-05T22:49:00.000-05:002006-08-05T22:49:00.000-05:00The Jesus I Never Knew by Philip Yancey helped thi...The Jesus I Never Knew by Philip Yancey helped this Reformed brother in the journey to know Jesus. Also, the Cross of Christ by Stott is a must-read. <BR/><BR/>I feel you, man!Matthew R. Perryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04175189986726740797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1154811029567739752006-08-05T15:50:00.000-05:002006-08-05T15:50:00.000-05:00hey brother. so glad that you're blogging so much...hey brother. so glad that you're blogging so much already, so that we can still keep tabs on you and the fam, and benefit from what god's teaching you, even at a distance. have also been convicted about my great reluctance to share "good news" with my employer. hoping that the spirit will bring fruit from that conviction. was telling angie that i'm glad that we're at a church where our duty as christians to evangelize is highlighted at least every sunday night. thanks for your thoughts and example.blamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07241992446115224824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28988815.post-1154679528860695402006-08-04T03:18:00.000-05:002006-08-04T03:18:00.000-05:00Thanks for your honesty. I feel the same way.Thanks for your honesty. I feel the same way.K. Elijah Layfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03326254934309723979noreply@blogger.com